What is success if you don’t have anyone to celebrate it with?
Family and Relationships are the most critical elements to have a balanced life since the primary emotion of Happiness and Joy is fulfilled by simply sharing your success with all those you love. The process has to be reciprocative. To receive Love one must love first unconditionally.
Family (Relationship) - (Representing Element - “Fire”)
There are several books and literature available that can be used to strengthen this area of your life.
Here are some tips,
- Before you look into your relationship with other, just spend next ten minutes to summarise your relationship with YOURSELF.
- A good Tip by Success Guru Anthony Robbins: “What makes relationship works are the things in common between each other (certainty), but what makes the relationship passionate is the differences (uncertainty).
- Find out different ways of giving pleasure to them.
- When it comes to the relationship management, listen to your heart and not mind. Whenever you are taking more than 5 seconds to take any relationship related decision, it means you are thinking and using your brain. STOP … what was your first reaction, what came to your mind first? Your first reaction is actually coming from your heart.
- A great assessment tool provided by Success Guru Anthony Robbins is, finding whether you meet the Six Basic Human Needs of them?
- Certainty - How much certainty you give them?
- Uncertainty - How much uncertainty / variety you give them?
- Significance - Do you make them feel significant?
- Connection / Love - How much do you think, they feel loved?
- Growth - How much growth you stimulate in your relationship?
- Contribution - How much do you contribute to them that they can appreciate?
A great recommended program is Love & Passion by Anthony Robbins. It is really an eye opener and very practical program.
For your Success,
